How to Have an Orgasm During Sex Using Masturbation to Work Out What Makes You Climax

Having an orgasm is physically not as easy for a woman as it is for a man. The body of a woman is not designed to orgasm as quickly as that of a man and it's this fact that many people are unaware of. Part of the problem to is that books and films tend to give the impression that woman climax quite readily during sex and so naturally if a girl doesn't reach an orgasm she may feel self conscious and even abnormal.

Most women actually don't have an orgasm every time the have sexual intercourse which is possibly a surprising fact. There are several reasons for this but mainly a girl has to be relaxed and in the right frame of mind to have an orgasm. If she is stressed then the chances are she won't. Due to a more permissive and open society we now have a much better understanding of what makes a woman tick.

Because a woman doesn't need to have an orgasm in order to fall pregnant, not enough importance has been placed on a casual approach to sex and what a woman gets out of it.
There is now evidence that any woman can in fact have an orgasm given the right circumstances and also the correct ways to make her feel properly aroused, but this can be quite personal and every one is different.

The pressure on younger, less experienced woman to reach an orgasm during sex with their partner can be quite stressful, especially if they think that everyone else is able to climax. This kind of stress can be bad for relaxing when having sex. There is now a general belief that orgasms for woman are actually a learned reaction and many girls are well into their sexual experience before they manage to climax for the first time.

It may even be as a result of masturbation rather than penetrative sex. On average it is thought that most girls have their first orgasm before the age of twenty however when questioned, certain woman have been in their forties when having a climax for the first time.

Sex experts recommend that if you find having an orgasm is a problem for you, then trying to find a method through masturbation should be tried first. This way you can explore what makes your body react and so you can then offer this information to a sexual partner to hopefully reach an orgasm. Although it may be a little difficult to talk about it to start with it is certainly a better option than doing nothing.