Having an orgasm is physically not as easy for a woman as it is for a man. The body of a woman is not designed to orgasm as quickly as that of a man and it's this fact that many people are unaware of. Part of the problem to is that books and films tend to give the impression that woman climax quite readily during sex and so naturally if a girl doesn't reach an orgasm she may feel self conscious and even abnormal.
Most women actually don't have an orgasm every time the have sexual intercourse which is possibly a surprising fact. There are several reasons for this but mainly a girl has to be relaxed and in the right frame of mind to have an orgasm. If she is stressed then the chances are she won't. Due to a more permissive and open society we now have a much better understanding of what makes a woman tick.
Because a woman doesn't need to have an orgasm in order to fall pregnant, not enough importance has been placed on a casual approach to sex and what a woman gets out of it.
There is now evidence that any woman can in fact have an orgasm given the right circumstances and also the correct ways to make her feel properly aroused, but this can be quite personal and every one is different.
The pressure on younger, less experienced woman to reach an orgasm during sex with their partner can be quite stressful, especially if they think that everyone else is able to climax. This kind of stress can be bad for relaxing when having sex. There is now a general belief that orgasms for woman are actually a learned reaction and many girls are well into their sexual experience before they manage to climax for the first time.
It may even be as a result of masturbation rather than penetrative sex. On average it is thought that most girls have their first orgasm before the age of twenty however when questioned, certain woman have been in their forties when having a climax for the first time.
Sex experts recommend that if you find having an orgasm is a problem for you, then trying to find a method through masturbation should be tried first. This way you can explore what makes your body react and so you can then offer this information to a sexual partner to hopefully reach an orgasm. Although it may be a little difficult to talk about it to start with it is certainly a better option than doing nothing.
Friday, April 2, 2010
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
SEX
Indeed, there exist some very well documented sex positions to conceive a girl, with a surprisingly high 94.8% success rate. Practiced with enough discipline, regularity, repetition, and consistency, you are virtually guaranteed to conceive a baby girl.
So if you have an extremely strong yearning to become the parent of a baby daughter, then you will want to look into this.
For example, one of the best sex positions to conceive a girl is the spooning position, or one of its variants.
Did you know that the type of thrusting strokes the man uses during penetration can also make the difference between conceiving a boy and conceiving a girl? Deep versus shallow penetration can make a big difference.
What is at issue here is the fact that the angle and depth of penile penetration into the woman'svagina can drastically influence whether you end up conceiving a girl or a boy baby.
How is this so? Well, consider this:
If the man uses very deep thrusts and ejaculates his sperm deep inside the woman's vagina, the sperm will make "landfall" somewhere deep inside near the cervix, and thus will have have less distance to travel to get to the egg. On the other hand, if the man uses shallow strokes and ejaculates at an angle into her vagina, the sperm may make "landfall" closer to the opening of the vagina, and thus it will have a longer distance to travel to get to the egg.
So it is for this reason that the spooning sex position, in which the man may end up ejaculating at an angle into the woman's vagina, is more likely to yield a girl. So the question is: How long can male sperm survive versus female sperm. And which gender sperm have the capability to swim faster than the other?
The methods and techniques you employ during sex can yield surprisingly different results.
· For instance, did you know that achieving simultaneous orgasms (in which both the man and the woman have orgasmic release at the same time) can actually yield one gender more strongly than the other?
· Did you know that whether or not the woman has an orgasm during a session of lovemaking can actually influence the outcome of the baby's gender? (Sorry ladies... depending on which gender you want, you might actually have to make a sacrifice and forgo your orgasmic release for the sake of conceiving the gender of baby that you want!)
Why does this matter? When a woman ejaculates, the vaginal secretions will cause a chemical reaction with the sperm that ultimately favors male sperm over the female sperm. As you can see, sex positions to conceive a girl require carefully choreographed lovemaking sessions. You can't "just do it". You have to do it "right". And you have to have the right timing too. Be sure to discuss these with your partner if you are serious about choosing the gender of your baby.
So if you have an extremely strong yearning to become the parent of a baby daughter, then you will want to look into this.
For example, one of the best sex positions to conceive a girl is the spooning position, or one of its variants.
Did you know that the type of thrusting strokes the man uses during penetration can also make the difference between conceiving a boy and conceiving a girl? Deep versus shallow penetration can make a big difference.
What is at issue here is the fact that the angle and depth of penile penetration into the woman'svagina can drastically influence whether you end up conceiving a girl or a boy baby.
How is this so? Well, consider this:
If the man uses very deep thrusts and ejaculates his sperm deep inside the woman's vagina, the sperm will make "landfall" somewhere deep inside near the cervix, and thus will have have less distance to travel to get to the egg. On the other hand, if the man uses shallow strokes and ejaculates at an angle into her vagina, the sperm may make "landfall" closer to the opening of the vagina, and thus it will have a longer distance to travel to get to the egg.
So it is for this reason that the spooning sex position, in which the man may end up ejaculating at an angle into the woman's vagina, is more likely to yield a girl. So the question is: How long can male sperm survive versus female sperm. And which gender sperm have the capability to swim faster than the other?
The methods and techniques you employ during sex can yield surprisingly different results.
· For instance, did you know that achieving simultaneous orgasms (in which both the man and the woman have orgasmic release at the same time) can actually yield one gender more strongly than the other?
· Did you know that whether or not the woman has an orgasm during a session of lovemaking can actually influence the outcome of the baby's gender? (Sorry ladies... depending on which gender you want, you might actually have to make a sacrifice and forgo your orgasmic release for the sake of conceiving the gender of baby that you want!)
Why does this matter? When a woman ejaculates, the vaginal secretions will cause a chemical reaction with the sperm that ultimately favors male sperm over the female sperm. As you can see, sex positions to conceive a girl require carefully choreographed lovemaking sessions. You can't "just do it". You have to do it "right". And you have to have the right timing too. Be sure to discuss these with your partner if you are serious about choosing the gender of your baby.
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